Posts Tagged ‘Reincarnation’

October 2018 Specials

OCTOBER 2018 SPECIALS

“Boo, Gotcha!” Big Picture Reboot

The title of this new special references that haunted house scare from someone or something jumping out when least expected. Some shocks are easier to laugh off than others; some of life’s “boo, gotcha!” moments can haunt us for years or even decades. This 30-minute session brings clarity and bigger picture context to the ghosts of your past. Whether from last week or eons ago, soul shocks finally begin to heal when we recognize and honor their role in the soul’s larger journey.

This session will help anyone with unexplained attachments, difficult breakups, sudden “accidents,” unexplained phobias, or feelings you just can’t shake. It can also provide clarity on recurring dreams, “blessings in disguise” where you can’t find the blessing, as well as “what are the odds?!” freakish experiences. A half-hour for $88 if prepaid on or by October 31, 2018. (Save $45 off my usual half-hour rate.) Please contact me to sign up.

Celtic New Year Wheel of the Year Special

Although Western Culture considers New Year’s Eve as December 31st, Samhain (pronounced SOW-en) marks the end of harvest season and the beginning of the dark, introspective half of the year. Traditionally celebrated on October 31st as Halloween or All Hallow’s Eve, Samhain seems like the right time to begin my next Wheel of the Year Special. (The official crossquarter day occurs this year on 11/7/18, so I’ll leave sign up open through 10/31/18.) Participants in the 8-Day Wheel of the Year Special I offered last January have found deeper connection and harmony with the seasons and their inner and outer worlds. On my end, I’ve loved helping people empower themselves by recognizing larger energy currents and non-linear time cycles. I’ve timed the Reiki Healing Attunements for maximum potency and support with each Turn.

Honoring and celebrating the Wheel of the Year reclaims secular or religious holidays and seasonal shifts as eight windows of “time out of time,” when the veils grow very thin. Whether we use such times as a reflective pause or to align ourselves with natural cycles, the Wheel of the Year invites us to partner with the Dance of Life.

This $888 special includes eight 30-minute sessions (one scheduled before each Turn of the Wheel, beginning in late October or early November 2018), plus a Reiki Healing Attunement at each Turn. These private sessions will be intuitively tailored to you (and your hemisphere), helping you to recognize synchronicities and supportive energies, as well as to clarify focus, intentions, meditations of your heart, rituals, Earth healing, personal healing, and/or discernment about how to make the most of these openings.

If you’ve felt called to embrace a deeper connection with the Land and a more soulful experience of time, the Wheel of the Year Special offers a discounted bundle of eight sessions and eight Reiki Healing Attunements in order to support and deepen your quest. This $888 bundle saves $616 off an individual investment of $1,504 and also represents my commitment to fit you in for a session prior to each Turn of the Wheel. Please contact me to sign up. Offer expires 10/31/18, because we will need time to schedule before our first Turn in late October/early November.

As with the original special, I don’t know if I will offer this again. My doing so now involves a year-long commitment to walk with you through an entire Circle of the Seasons.  (If you signed up for the original Wheel of the Year Special and want to continue for another year, this package will begin where your original leaves off.)

Timothy Glenn ~ Lunar Explorations

He’s ba-a-a-ck! After his last post rocked many a worldview, Timothy Glenn returns as promised to discuss the moon and its influence. How to introduce this post? Hmmm … here’s what Tim said in his email to me:

“The moon is currently part of our experience. We can learn to deal with it, work around it, or even utilize it without surrendering to its influence. The suggestion here is to exercise vigilance so as to make informed choices. Again we swing back to Carl Gustav Jung: ‘Don’t fight forces, use them.’”

“The only thing you can ever know for sure, is that you can never know anything for sure.”

And with that intro, here’s Timothy Glenn:

 

Lunar Explorations

Let’s explore theories of the origin and nature of the moon. Indigenous peoples and ancient writers have spoken of the time before the Earth had the moon. She was inhabited by humans, who passed on their remembrances of life on Earth when there was no such thing as the moon we now have.

The July 1970 edition of the journal Sputnik featured an article by Russian scientists Mikhail Vasin and Alexander Shcherbakov: Continue reading

FAQ’s About Past Life Readings

I keep getting emails from people inquiring if this month’s $77 Past Life Reading is a regression. Short answer: no, I’m not a hypnotherapist. It’s a past life reading. Since the short answer always leads to many more questions, I’m linking to the intro to and reblog of an earlier post called Akashic Records, Past Life Reading, Past Life Regression: Definitions, Differences and Similarities. 

Between the intro and the longer article, I think that should answer the bulk of questions I receive. I actually wrote the intro and reblogged that post back in April 2014 when I also ran the $77/half hour Past Life Special (normally $175/hour) and received so many questions. I’m happy to find so many people who’ve never even thought of past lives before suddenly feeling led to inquire about this type of reading. In the decade I’ve offered past life readings, I have found them to be the missing key to so many relationship and health issues.

Believe it or not, I began as a skeptic, but time and time again (no pun intended), I have seen past life work resolve issues that otherwise have not budged even with decades of therapy.  Those people interested in how I came to offer past life readings might enjoy this older post, “Past Lives and Law of Attraction.”

OK, I think that covers all the questions I’ve been receiving about past lives. As for scheduling, I have limited availability until 2016; however, some of our guests just let us know that they will be arriving later than expected, which means I now have some unexpected time next week for anyone wanting to schedule a past life reading before running into that “challenging” person at the holiday table. 😉

Blessings and healing to you and yours …

 

November 2015 Specials and Reiki 1 Certification Class

Well, my goodness, November snuck up on me! It’s time to post the specials. As always, this month’s offerings reflect my sense of how to support the current and emerging energies, as well as responding to client and reader questions and requests. In this month of All Soul’s Day, it seems fitting to offer a brand new Soul Reading Special. Whenever planetary consciousness rises, past life bleedthrough seems to increase, crying out for attention and release. So many of last month’s Medical Intuitive Special sessions revealed past life factors that I thought I’d offer a more directly soul focused special this month.

Also, please note: due to some unexpected but necessary schedule changes for two of the students interested in this coming Saturday’s class, we do still have room in this (most likely) last Reiki 1 class for 2015. if you’d like to begin your Reiki certification journey before year’s end, now’s your chance to do so in a smaller class in the newly set up “Blue House” aka Haus am See.

NOVEMBER 2015 SPECIALS

$131 Soul Readings

Soul readings are what some people would call Past Life Readings, except we choose an area of focus — specific repeat challenges or relationships — and I share my impressions of the multiple lifetimes and patterns (attempted corrections and over-corrections) that have resulted in your current experiences. Bringing long-repressed past life stories to the conscious surface allows you to consciously address them, releasing old trauma, while embracing latent gifts. $131 (25% off) if prepaid on or before 11/30/2015. Please contact me to sign up.

$222 Mini-Coaching Packages

Back by popular request, this three-pack of half hour sessions represents a $52 savings over the usual rate. Sessions can be scheduled weekly or as needed. They can address anything from career changes to relationships to esoteric skills, potential relocation, past life issues, and/or health concerns.

$222 if prepaid on or before 11/30/15. Please contact me to sign up.

REIKI TRAINING

Reiki Level 1 Certification Class in Goshen, Indiana

Saturday, November 7, from 10 a.m. – 5 p.m. (East Coast time) in Goshen, Indiana.

For reference, Goshen is about 40 minutes East of South Bend, 8 miles from the Michigan border, and 2-3 hours from the Chicago area, depending on your exact location. A limited number of rooms are available for students who need to spend the night.

Students will learn and/or receive:

• History, nature, and science of Reiki.
• Experiencing Reiki energy.
• Using Reiki with other healing arts.
• Discussion of 21-day cleanse.
• Treating animals and plants.
• Essence scanning process.
• Establishing a Reiki practice.
• Practice self-treatment hand positions.
• Handouts and resource list.
• Reiki Circles.
• What a Reiki lineage represents.
• Giving a Reiki treatment with hand positions.
• Ethics and Legal Responsibilities as a Reiki Practitioner.
• Reiki Level 1 Attunement.

Certification: At the end of the training, each student will receive a certificate acknowledging completion of Reiki Level 1, as well as recognition as a Reiki Level 1 Practitioner. Taking any Reiki training with me also qualifies each student to audit (at no cost) any additional Reiki classes taught by me, up to and including the level completed with her (space permitting).

Fee: $175

Please contact me to reserve your spot.

Three More Days

Just a quick reminder that if you’d like to purchase one or both of these specials, you have three more days to do so. The specials will change for February, and these are not regular offerings. (The Preparedness Check-In one would normally need to be covered under “Life Coaching” at those rates, and I don’t usually offer half-hour Past Life Readings.)

JANUARY 2015 SPECIALS

Intuitive Preparedness Check-In

This is a return of a popular 2014 special, which I feel called to highlight again now. This special responds to many comments, questions and private emails requesting my take on the question “What can I do right now?” — for specific individuals, rather than general guidelines and suggestions. With so many people feeling the structures and safety nets of the old world slip away, clients, friends and blog readers continue to voice concerns that preparedness strategies seem too overwhelming even to contemplate, let alone implement.

This hour session gives you access to my own intuitive scan of what areas of focus will provide you the greatest payback and sense of abundance, peace and security, with the least amount of resistance. Those looking to make larger lifestyle shifts can ask me to scan various lifestyle, location and/or community options to see which ones fit best with your vibration and heart’s desires. You can also use our time together to discuss energetic/magickal protection and manifestation tools and techniques, along with troubleshooting your most pressing concerns in various areas of life, including finances, food security, faith/spirituality/soul nurturing, relationships and/or land.

I feel so strongly about helping people take steps from fear, denial and overwhelm into abundance, joy and freedom, that I’m keeping this pricing a simple $123. As Tolkien said, “Little by little, one travels far.”

Please contact me if you’d like to sign up for this special. Offer valid if prepaid on or before January 31, 2015.

Return of the $77 Past Life Quickie

Another “oldie” but goodie. 😉

With the veils thinning, so many more people have begun to experience what I call “past life bleed-through.” Dreams, hunches, visions, flashes … however the suspected past life awareness arrives, it can feel unsettling, exciting and/or cause obsessive questions. This half-hour reading allows people to ask persistent questions, or to have a check-in regarding the most pressing karmic issues presenting themselves right now. Yes, this can include past life relationships with animal friends. I don’t normally offer Past Life Readings in a half-hour format, but I wanted to make this available to the larger numbers of people wondering about previous lifetimes and relationships. If you’d like to double this special for the full hour, just let me know in your scheduling request. Offer valid if prepaid on or before January 31, 2015.

Past Life Q & A

This email exchange happened today. I’m keeping it anonymous for privacy but also posting it, since I do have the $77 Past Life Quickie Special running this month. If one person’s asking, maybe others have similar questions.

Question:

Dear Ms. Bruno,
I would very much like to have life readings regarding my previous incarnations. Specifically, I would like to know how many incarnations I have had, the time frame of each life, a brief description of the achievements of each life, the manner of death of each life, and the identity of any present family members that shared those previous lives with me.

Would you please advise on your willingness to provide this information and the cost for performing this service.

Thank you for your response.

Answer:

Dear ___,
Thanks for contacting me. I would be happy to provide you with past life readings; however, what you’re looking for is not how I work. The information I glean deals with healing — relationships, health issues, long-standing patterns/limitations. I only receive past life information relevant to healing and soul growth, not the mundane details of a Who’s Who history book. The past life information I receive tends to provide a very different perspective on whatever “bleed-through” from previous incarnations is affecting this lifetime.

I’m really not convinced of the value of what you’re looking for, but if surface details are the main thing you want to learn, rather than the truly relevant details affecting you this time around, then perhaps you would want to find someone who can hypnotize you for a series of past life regressions with this surface history as your stated purpose. Alternatively, you could look for more of a parlor trick kind of psychic, but I’m not sure how valid that information would be. Generally, past life work is done for the purposes of healing and empowering this lifetime, rather than for an esoteric family tree.

I wish you the best in your search,
Laura Bruno

June 2014 Special

I’m only offering one special this month, because clients have been having so many breakthroughs right now through past life work. In an effort to support more people liberating themselves from old patterns and situations, all Past Life Readings purchased today through June 30, 2014 will be $122 instead of the usual $175. Please contact me if you have questions or would like to sign up. Many blessings!

Last Two Days for March Specials

MARCH SPECIALS

Tune-In, Tune-Up

Three half-hour Intuitive Life Coaching Sessions (total 1.5 hours) for $188. I’ve received a lot of requests for Life Coaching during the past few months and especially this past week. Most of the people asking for sessions have specifically asked for half-hour check-ins instead of the more usual hour-long offerings. I am happy to offer support for self-motivated people looking for timely affirmations, clarity and objective help with difficult decisions. This “Tune-In, Tune-Up” package offers the equivalent of three $90/half hour sessions at a savings of $82. It’s like buying two and getting the third for $8.

Intuitive Life Coaching sessions work best as a concentrated bunch, rather than spread out over six months or a year. That doesn’t necessarily mean once per week, but these shorter sessions are designed to supercharge your motivation and encourage continued momentum for people wanting to make lasting changes sooner rather than later.

Offer valid if prepaid by 3/31/13. Please contact me to sign up.

Healing Skills Reclamation

This $77 Special Past Life Reading focuses on your previous lifetime(s) as a healer, helping you to access deeply buried healing skills. Such skills may appear as “natural gifts,” because you’ve already studied and/or mastered them in previous or parallel lifetimes. We are each individual expressions of Infinite Potential; however, some of us resonate with and respond more strongly to certain healing or creative modalities. The Healing Skills Reclamation will help you find out why and will also help you to become aware of which modalities and skills may come easier for you or produce faster, more fluid results in this incarnation. This topic arises in Past Life Readings, but I’ve never offered it as a dedicated Special. Here’s your chance.

Offer valid if prepaid by 3/31/13. Please contact me to sign up.

Akashic Records, Past Life Reading, Past Life Regression: Definitions, Differences and Similarities

So much confusion hovers around how Akashic Records, Past Life Reading and Past Life Regression relate to one another. Some people erroneously believe all three are the exact same thing; however, important differences exist among them. This article defines each topic and gives tips on how to choose the most helpful modality for you.

Akashic Records

According to Wikipedia, “[t]he akashic records (akasha is a Sanskrit word meaning ‘sky’, ‘space’ or ‘aether’) is a term used in theosophy (and Anthroposophy) to describe a compendium of mystical knowledge encoded in a non-physical plane of existence. These records are described as containing all knowledge of human experience and the history of the cosmos. They are metaphorically described as a library; other analogies commonly found in discourse on the subject include a ‘universal supercomputer’ and the ‘Mind of God.’ People who describe the records assert that they are constantly updated automatically and that they can be accessed through astral projection[1] or when someone is placed under deep hypnosis. The concept was popularized in the theosophical movements of the 19th century and is derived from Hindu philosophy of Samkhya. It is promulgated in the Samkhya philosophy that the Akashic records are automatically recorded in the elements of akasha one of the five types of elements visualized as existing in the elemental theory of Ancient India, called Mahabhuta. The term akashic records is frequently used in New Age discourse.”

One could argue that the akashic records are simply the subconscious mind — both individual and collective — constantly recording and updating every being you’ve ever been and every lifetime you’ve ever had. Your subconscious mind never sleeps. It constantly records and transmits feelings, experiences, desires and memories, many of which never reach conscious awareness. I once heard that if someone hypnotized you and commanded you to recite back every license plate you’ve ever seen from Texas that you would be able to do so. In alphabetical order! Now, consider that your subconscious mind contains this level of information (and more) about every being you’ve ever been and every experience you’ve ever had — in any form and any lifetime.

Moreover, in the subconscious, all time is now. The subconscious doesn’t differentiate between something that happened 2000 years ago or just last night. What a blessing that so much remains below consciousness! Can you imagine how overwhelmed you’d feel if every time you wanted to introduce yourself, you needed to wade through all the names you’ve ever had? Sheesh! You think it’s hard to remember new names at parties? What if you also received conscious access to all of their names from every time you knew them before?! Those names might seem to fit even better than their current one, especially if you held strong associations with them in other lives.

Akashic records are involved in both past life readings and past life regressions. Whether they present as a “library” or a computer depends more on someone’s own process of information gathering and sorting. Linear people usually experience or consider individual “records,” kind of like reading one chapter of one book at a time, whereas non-linear folks may find themselves able to access information via multiple “frames” opened through something like the Cosmic Google. In this sense, a search word could be “entered” and the results would include all records relevant to that term.

Such a method of processing is rare, even under hypnosis, but some trained Akashic Records Readers can bring back the results of such a search, as long as they remain in trance. Some Past Life Readers are spontaneously able to contextualize a series of lifetimes in order to resolve a certain issue or relationship. These non-linear psychics with excellent gathering and sorting skills would be considered “expert researchers,” able to use speed and accuracy to determine the most useful information regarding any given situation. Not all psychics manage to master this process, but they can still retrieve valuable files from the akashic records. The average person does not access his or her own past lives in such a non-linear fashion, but rather one at a time via past life regression under hypnosis.

Past Life Regression

A past life regression occurs under a hypnotic trance induced by a trained psychologist, counselor, psychiatrist or hypnotherapist. Not all psychologists, counselors and psychiatrists are certified hypnotherapists, and not all hypnotherapists offer past life regression therapy. Some treatment providers only regress clients as far back as childhood, and even the ones who do past life regressions often take multiple sessions to get to that level.

The main disadvantages of past life regression therapy include:

1) The potential slowness of therapy, if it takes multiple sessions to get to any past life information.
2) Some people do not feel comfortable going into a hypnotic trance, especially if they do not know or fully trust the person inducing the trance.
3) The sessions usually need to occur in person at an office, although some hypnotherapists do offer phone sessions.
4) The sessions will be limited by the client’s own processing methods and/or the hypnotherapist’s ability to come up with questions. If the person does not know how to retrieve multiple lifetimes simultaneously and the issues spill across several lifetimes, then past life regression therapy can take many sessions even once it does begin. The information will be valuable and seem real, but it may not sort itself into detectable patterns.

The main advantage of past life regression therapy over past life readings is that the client gets to re-experience the relevant past life trauma while in a highly relaxed, supervised setting. If the past life feels too intense or scary, the hypnotherapist can ask questions or provide needed reassurance as though coaching the person through their earlier trauma. Some people prefer the immediacy and “real time” experience of past life regression therapy. It can leave a lasting, tangible impression that provides context for current struggles. Most hypnotherapists will also ease the client out of the session with instructions on how to release that lifetime and its attendant feelings into the no longer relevant past.

In selecting a past life regression therapist, it may help to conduct a mini interview in order to ensure that you feel comfortable with the hypnotherapist’s style, voice, energy, intentions and level of compassion. Hypnosis gives someone direct access to your subconscious mind in a state vulnerable to programming. Since your subconscious mind runs so much of your life, tremendous power and responsibility comes with the ability to reprogram someone’s negative patterns into something more positive. You will receive more benefit from this type of therapy and allow yourself a deeper hypnosis experience if you fully trust the person inducing your trance.

Past Life Readings

Unlike past life regression therapy, which has some fairly specialized procedures, training and ethical guidelines, past life readings are delivered through a psychic, who may or may not have any training or certification. Psychic and intuitive gifts and skills are available to everyone, but some people naturally manage to tune into other realms and dimensions. Others attended workshops or spent years researching how to improve their latent psychic awareness. Many past life readers cannot explain their precise methods of knowing. Sometimes lifetimes present like old fashioned films; other readers may “hear” the story or empathically feel the events; others may use all their senses to see, feel, hear, taste, touch, smell, and spontaneously “know” the thoughts, motivations, and context of multiple lifetimes related to a particular issue or relationship.

As with past life regression therapy, the person giving the reading is as important as the information itself. Not all past life readers offer the same levels of integrity, ability, or depth of information. At worst, some are charlatans; at best, they present exactly the right information for spontaneous healing and liberation. Most psychics fall somewhere in between these extremes. In determining whom to contact for a reading, try to get a sense of the psychic through testimonials, personal recommendations, and any books, articles or videos presented by the psychic. Even the purest information from the other realms will be filtering through this person, so you’ll want to make sure you like their vibration and resonate with their interpretation skills. Good psychics do not let their own attitudes and prejudices influence the information that comes through, but the ego does create blind spots. Accuracy and value of information is often inversely proportionate to the level of ego you sense. (This is true for everyone, not just psychics!)

Red flags would include any obvious agenda, threats, or fear tactics. If someone tells you that you have horrible karma that will destroy your life unless you pay them $1000 right now to clear your negative energy, please do take some time to recenter yourself and pray for clarity. Sometimes past life issues can rear their ugly heads in very intense ways, but good past life readings usually bring clarity and a sense of relief. If someone tries to manipulate you or insists that “they know all,” then you might want to see what your own inner guidance tells you. Just because someone tunes in doesn’t mean they know everything, but just because you don’t like or resonate with what they shared doesn’t necessarily mean they’re “wrong.” You might need more time for processing; the psychic might be filtering accurate information through his or her own limited world view; or the lifetime may need the context of other lifetimes revealed before it makes any sense in this one.

The primary disadvantage of past life readings is that so much depends upon the quality of the psychic delivering the information. Advantages of a good past life reading include: the “non-invasive” approach of reading rather than hypnosis; contextualization of multiple lifetimes; external affirmations of dreams or nudges you’ve wondered about; and the fact that many past life readers have other psychic awareness, too, like chakra clearing and energy movement. A good past life reader can see or otherwise sense if your energy body has released or begun to release the current issues related to your past life problems.

Why Mess Around with Any of These?

Ideally, past lives don’t matter at all. We come here in order to experience this lifetime, with all its unique manifestations of our soul. Sometimes issues or relationships continue to trouble us, though, regardless of more mainstream attempts at release and change. If you’ve exhausted your known methods of moving through trauma, phobias, ongoing relationship issues with people, authority or money, then it might be time to explore those akashic records, in whatever ways and with whomever feels most in alignment with your personality, comfort level, and goals. If you don’t sense any pressing need for treatment, but you just feel irrepressibly curious about past lives, that’s probably your subconscious trying to relay valuable information to you. I wish you all the best in all time!

Past Life Relationships: 5 Signs

Of all the questions people ask me, determining if there are past life connections with current relationships ranks super high on the list. Here are five signs that point to yes:

1) You felt an immediate connection that was “out of this world” or so familiar you can’t believe this person ever wasn’t in your life.

This one seems obvious, but so many minds doubt what body and soul announce with megaphones. If you light up and synchronize with another person right away, then it’s a strong indicator that you’ve run into this soul before, perhaps multiple times. It doesn’t necessarily mean this person is your soul mate or that you belong together. It just means you’ve had dealings with this soul before, and the connection has begun to reawaken dormant parts of your larger Self.

2) You felt an immediate, intense, and often inexplicable aversion to someone.

Unless brought to the conscious level through remembered dreams, meditation, past life regression, spontaneous visions or a past life reading, past life memories reside in the subconscious. Your emotions help you to know what resonates or does not resonate with you, even if you don’t understand the underlying reasons. Intuitive people often experience negative first impressions of people who wish to harm them, and that does not necessarily indicate a past life relationship. Your Spidey senses might just be saving you a lot of future trouble! When a strong aversion occurs with regard to people who have proven themselves safe (to the best of your observation) or who truly love and wish to support your growth, then that aversion often indicates a background story of loss, betrayal, harm or misunderstanding. Finding the plot line(s) can help restore peace or give you confidence to part ways.

3) Your initial reaction to someone was really not what you expected, or you just can’t understand why you feel this way.

This sometimes happens with parents and newborns. The single mom who almost aborted or gave the child up for adoption finds herself unable to part with the baby, even if that means breaking contracts and having to revamp life plans. Conversely, parents who’ve eagerly awaited the birth often feel tremendous guilt for really not meshing with the newborn. They feel a strong sense of “should” or “logic” but for some reason, those pesky emotions won’t cooperate. The surprising reaction can also occur among adults — like when you meet someone you previously dismissed or idolized and have the opposite experience than you envisioned. This indicator doesn’t rely so much on intensity as confusion, especially tormented confusion. Why? Why? Why? Often, just recognizing and honoring the past life influence allows people to release the confusion and return to life in the now.

4) You feel like a different person around them.

In the case of family dynamics, you might have one parent or sibling whose presence seems to immobilize you or crumble your confidence, kind of kryptonite for Superman. Alternatively, you might encounter someone whose presence seems to ignite best parts you didn’t know existed. All the plans in the world suddenly may seem irrelevant as this “new” person completely reorients your life. The new direction may, in fact, be just what you need, or it could indicate cause for extreme caution.

In any case, if you find yourself compulsively acting in unusual ways, do take time to center yourself each morning and evening. I would also suggest The Blue Room meditation, followed by self observation: have your interests or emotions suddenly shifted back to “normal” after doing the meditation? If so, your new personality/interests/life path may have stemmed more from a perceived karmic imbalance than true guidance. Very often the compulsive aspect of relationships (or our reactions to those relationships) stems from our excitement about “getting our stuff back.” We can project all manner of energies (good or bad) onto souls we’ve known before, but what we really long for is a return to balance.

5) You feel like you neeeeeeed this person in your life.

Past life issues arise from the subconscious, where all time is now. If someone was your father in a past life and died while you were a young child, you might feel extra clingy and needy with this soul’s current incarnation. You might feel like your very survival depends on this person remaining in your life in a certain way. The subconscious does not differentiate between past, present and future. In a world where all time is now, past life bleed through represents information and feelings that may not be appropriate to this lifetime, causing inappropriately controlling or longing reactions. I see this evidenced in broken relationships where one or both parties just can’t let go, or in long term unrequited love affairs. Again, The Blue Room can be very helpful. Learning the bigger past life picture brings repressed memories into the conscious realm where they can be evaluated, understood and released. This allows healthier boundaries and a return to your own being, rather than giving energy to or trying to harness energy from, someone else.

Ideally, past lives don’t matter at all.

But when they do, they really do! If you have relationships that just won’t cooperate or that make you feel confused, “less than” or obsessive, you might want to explore past life factors. Automatic writing/journaling can help, as well as recording your dreams. If these methods don’t bring you the clarity you seek then you may want to consider help from a hypnotherapist or trusted intuitive. You came here in a fresh new body with the hope and intention of joy, freedom, growth and love. I wish you all the best in finding and reclaiming your true Self.

Want specific details about your own past lives and relationships?

Please contact me here to request a professional past life reading.