Posts Tagged ‘Cutting Cords’

Protecting Your Energy Field

I’ve been getting so many questions about this topic, especially since my recent radio show where we talked about Energy Vampires. During that show I mentioned some tools to help people disconnect from unwanted interactions with people or entities draining their energy through emotional cords. I’m including a few of the tools here, so I have somewhere to refer all the people asking me about this topic.

1. Ask for cord-cutting help from Archangel Michael. He’s got a fiery sword and he’s one heckuva warrior. AA Michael can cut cords like nobody’s business, and he knows how to find those hidden ones that you might have overlooked when trying to attempt cord cutting on your own.

One caveat with AA Michael and all the angels: they absolutely will not interfere without permission. If parts of you still want those connections, then AA Michael will not sever them prematurely. In the event you feel he’s “not helping you,” it doesn’t mean he won’t or can’t; it means you’ve got some parts of you still reaching out for the connection. You won’t feel much different if AA Michael severs the cords and then you immediately send out a needy, clingy, apologetic, or addictive message to the castaway vamp: “Please come back! I didn’t mean it! Please, please come back.” Permission comes in a variety of forms. When we’re talking about energy vampirism, doesn’t it make sense that the permission could be sent energetically?

Oftentimes people do feel conflicted about energy vampires, because those folks or entities are extremely good at finding your emotional hot spots, especially areas of shame, guilt or inadequacy. These insecurities become just that: unsecured entrances into your being. The more time you spend cleared of these beings, the more you can heal. That’s why it helps to ask AA Michael for regular cord cuttings. If you feel extremely conflicted about someone, then a single cord cutting probably won’t do the job. You might feel good for awhile and then thoughts of the other person begin to invite them back into your energy field. Time for another cord cutting. Eventually, you start to feel more normal without the connection than with it, but the adjustment can take a little time.

Angels always honor your own inner process, so please don’t blame AA Michael for you still having cords! The blame game locks you back into the whole victim-abuser-savior cycle, which makes you a tasty treat for energy vampires. Taking responsibility for your own addictive reconnection requests, as well as taking a stand in favor of boundaries by asking for repeated clearings, will gradually rebuild a functional and healthy sense of personal power.

2. As an immediate follow-up to AA Michael cord cutting, you might want to ask AA Raphael (literally “God heals”) to help seal up your aura. Think of cutting the umbilical cord after a birth. It also gets tied up and monitored for healing. With your permission, AA Raphael can smooth over any auric rough patches and fill in any holes left by those emotional bonds. Yes, they really are bonds, but you can break free.

3. You can also call upon Runic energy to protect your auric field. The Thorn Rune, also called Thurisaz or Dhoarnn, brings with it the energy of a thorny hedge. Remember in Sleeping Beauty how the castle gets surrounded by thorns so thick that only the right prince can pass? No one and nothing else gets through. You can use Thurisaz as an energy filter, imagining multiples of this Rune surrounding you on all sides and dimensions, above and below.

Thurisaz, Thorn or Dhoarrn Rune

This Rune acts like Thor’s hammer, repelling and binding enemies to keep them from attacking you. Runes are tools, and please remember that a hammer can build a house or smash someone’s head in. I only recently began teaching about Runes on this blog because I sense a need for such tools as people move through the intensifying energies of 2012. I operate from more of an Aikido perspective in that I prefer not to attack anyone at all, even when attacked. Rather, I like to disengage and transmute the energy into something more preferable. That’s how I use this Rune — not as a hammer flying out to crush anyone “bad.” Instead I employ Thurisaz like the Aikido technique of “blending with the motion of the attacker and redirecting the force of the attack rather than opposing it head-on. This requires very little physical strength, as the aikidōka (aikido practitioner) ‘leads’ the attacker’s momentum using entering and turning movements.”

Please use Runes responsibly! They might look like a bunch of straight and angular lines, but they speak directly to the subconscious mind. In that sense, they create reality. Potent tools of co-creation, Runes can help you define clearer boundaries and filters, protect your energy, charge intentions and pretty much anything else you desire. The tools themselves are neutral, though. Positive, high vibe intent remains key, especially when dealing with energy vampires. If you start abusing others’ boundaries or using Runes to control people through subconscious programming, then you continue to vibrate with that victim-abuser-savior cycle. You’ll find it very difficult to escape energetic vampirism if you yourself surf off others’ energy. Like attracts like.

4. But Light also attracts dark. That old, opposites attract saying does have some truth to it. People filled with tremendous Light and Love do tend to find a lot of people and beings sucking them dry. The greater their connection to Source the less they might even notice the drain, because they constantly become so replenished.

For many millenia, the Lightworkers’ main job was to bring Light into the dark spots; however, we are entering a new time. In 2012 and beyond, Lightworkers need to model the new possibilities available to all humanity. This means acting more like a mirror than someone’s next “fix.” This means increasing one’s Light and sealing off all the drains, so that their Light continues to expand and shine brighter and brighter. Having a bunch of depleted or less than optimally radiant Lightworkers doesn’t do the job anymore, because the job has changed. Humans as a species need to step into their own inner connection to Source. By cutting off the easy secondhand supply, Lightworkers actually encourage people to tap directly into Source.

Lightworkers can still carry Light and Love into this world. In fact, they can do so much better when they continue to grow stronger and more confident in their abilities and Divine connection. I’ll leave you with the following quote for inspiration and explanation of why protecting your energy field has become one of the most important tasks for anyone wanting to make a positive difference in the world:

“You cannot get poor enough to help poor people thrive.
You cannot get sick enough to help sick people get better.
It is only in your thriving that you have anything to offer anyone.
If you’re wanting to be of an advantage to others,
be as tapped in, tuned in, turned on as you can possibly be.”
— Abraham

Excerpted from the workshop in San Diego, CA on Saturday, February 15th, 2003 #662

Our Love,
Jerry and Esther
http://www.abraham-hicks.com

Peace!!

Becoming Invisible and The Mists of Avalon

Thanks to Bill Ballard for bringing the following “Spacemuffin” post to my attention. It reminds me so much of my experience reading “The Mists of Avalon” this past November and December. I’ve said for years that the Earth may one day just split so that it’s all happening all at once but in different dimensions of awareness — kind of like in The Celestine Prophecy movie. One will not see the other, except in cases where people experience dimensional bleed-through. My intro to Spacemuffin’s post is my portion of a cleaned up email exchange to a discouraged Lightworker. It all intertwines well with themes from recent sessions and friendly exchanges.

So Many Avalon Synchronicities!

Reading “The Mists of Avalon” affected me on a profound level. In some ways it felt like a homecoming; at other times, a warning. Initially Avalon was where the fae people lived and it gradually became invisible to all but those who carried the Faery within them. Eventually, Camelot began to disappear as well, falling into the realm of legend. What struck me in the book was that the Avalon people began with noble goals of wanting to carry beauty into the denser world. They wanted to have that spark of Spirit remain for Seekers. They felt themselves disappearing into the mists and mourned for the pain of a world without that kind of magic.

It began as a compassionate endeavor, but then it got ugly! They ended up moving into the denser layers and needing to find ways to operate and bring their magic into the ordinary realms — for the purpose of preserving Avalon in the 3D world. I could still see their reasoning, but the methods became so corrupted by the density that they wound up creating massive trauma, treachery and sorrow in the very world they were trying to save. Things got worse, not better. The two worlds really were moving in different directions and trying to bridge that gap, though noble, at some point became excruciatingly painful for everyone involved.

Reading that book was one of the main reasons I left Facebook. When NDAA passed, along with all the other insane bills getting signed into law — rooting out my inner demons seemed like a less conflicted and more effective method once the gap between intentions and 3D-ality had become so great. Our outer world reflects our inner world, so if we want that Shadow Government to disappear, it’s time to shine the Light on our own Shadow. Tools have been scattered. Information has been leaked. Lifestyle possibilities have been modeled. The visions and options have been shared. We’re approaching choice time, and we really don’t get to choose for others. …

I choose 5D and a return to the faery realm, or whatever we’re calling it these days! I hope a lot of others join me, but I also recognize that the requirements to live in that realm don’t sound like “heaven” to a lot of folks. Living without lies means losing the “luxury” of lying to yourself. Enjoying free will means taking responsibility for the world you help create with your thoughts and attitude. Reclaiming personal power means forever quitting the blame game and the whole victim-abuser-savior cycle that goes with it. To me this sounds like an enormous relief! To some people the process of excavating the authentic Self feels like hell on Earth. No need to duke things out, though. Committing to your own choices creates the shift. Reality sorts itself.

It’s become a vibrational match issue and … like any relationship … you can only stretch things soooooo far before you just know in your heart you’ve gotta leave. If not this then something better. I have to say, my own life has been getting much better and more magical since I’ve “left” the world. I’m still in it to some degree — not invisible yet — but definitely cutting cords multiple times per day, rooting out the parasites (self-imposed and external, although of course they’re the same!). Anyway, don’t let the low vibes get you down. As my vision board now says, “Let the good times roll.” They’re already here, so we might as well enjoy ’em.

Love, hugs, blessings and some laughter ….methinks you could use a giggle fest!

And now, here’s Spacemuffin:

Spacemuffin (via Lucas) | February 13 2012

Becoming Invisible

We are already living on the ‘separate earth,’ the earth’s ethereal body, where the ‘template’ is being set for what she will move into and eventually become, or align with. We helped create that ‘new earth’ with our thoughts and our consciousness and our way of being/living. We are already in a higher dimension, separate from illusion, and away from the third dimensional reality and timeline. Our resonance on 3D earth is only what remains of our physical bodies, and physical lives, which we occasionally visit, which continue on mother earth’s third dimensional physical body. But our ethereal bodies are already living on the newly created planet, and we shift from one dimension to another and the one, it is said, shall not know the other. It’s a choice now, which one we want to spend more time on……which one we want to give our attention to. Whichever one we choose, is the one we will continue to create.

We are creating a new planet. We have been given that opportunity, because our surroundings can only ever reflect our inner conditions. While we continue to physically occupy a 3rd dimensional being, we are dreaming, of a world free of restriction, without borders; a world filled with peace and a world filled with love for every face we see, every tree that blows in the wind, and animal that crosses our path. And while we dreamt, we created, and the more we created, the better it felt when we went back to the dream. And the shift into this higher dimensional earth is almost unnoticed, but somehow, everything out there looks different, doesn’t it? The trees don’t look the same, the birds are flying differently, and everything is just more beautiful, but we don’t really understand why. It’s because we altered the space that we occupy and created the paradise we dreamed of.

So the new earth vibrates in the auric field of the old earth, in a high 4th dimensional frequency, perhaps 5th, ( depending on the dreamer), and only those who dream, or those who practice multi-dimensional travel, can exist there. Others may not see them, because they will become less dense, and invisible. Neither can they see the new earth, nor witness the auric field of creation. So be careful that somebody doesn’t step on your foot……………..because they just can’t see you anymore.

Face Piles of Trials with Smiles
The Muffin

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New Moon in Aquarius and Mars Retrograde: Releasing Anger and Energy Vampires

As part of my ongoing Forgiveness Experiment, I discovered a hot technique the other night for rechanneling the negative emotions associated with psychic vampires, narcissists, and other people who’ve flagrantly betrayed our trust and boundaries. With Pluto in Capricorn, all sorts of hidden truths have begun to reveal themselves both individually and collectively. All the deepest, darkest secrets and abuses will continue to shock and bother us as this combination of planetary energies forces the Shadows into the Light. It’s time. Carl Jung reminds us, “That which we do not bring to consciousness appears in our lives as fate.” Moving through the Shadow frees us to embrace a brighter world.

In addition to Pluto in Capricorn, some other astrological energies support finding productive ways to engage and then release our anger. We’ve got the Chinese New Year on the 23rd: Year of the Water Dragon! We’ve also got a New Moon tonight in Aquarius and beginning tomorrow, Mars Retrograde in Virgo. Thanks to Tania Marie for bringing “Let the Dragon Roar” to my attention: “Welcome to Mars turning retrograde in nitpicky Virgo! The warrior planet will be retracing its steps from Jan. 23 to April 13, and continues to energize this earthy sign until July 3. Altogether, it will spend almost eight months in Virgo, helping us channel our anger and frustration, get organized, heal ancient wounds, and find constructive ways to right personal, corporate and planetary wrongs.”

Two nights ago, I tapped into Pluto for assistance in releasing resentment. I said, “Hey, Pluto, you’re the Lord of the Underworld and the phoenix rising from its ashes. I want you to help me burn through all these emotions related to ____ and help me use them as fuel for transformation. It will save me from having to sort through them at all. I’ve determined this was a toxic relationship and whatever good I got from it was mostly due to my own determination to find the gold. Now I really want to find the gold — as in Alchemy. Rather than digging around in the muckety muck of old memories, trying to sort through the good, the bad, the ugly, the guilty, the nostalgic and especially the very, very confusing, I’m just opting to burn them all. Positive and negative emotions are powerful energy. If I burn through positive emotions, I still receive their benefit. I don’t need to worry about ‘wasting good memories’ if I’m using them for fuel. And the bad memories I can use for fuel as well. I’m tired of giving away my energy to these emotions, and I’m really tired of the emotional cords that allow ____ to continue surfing off my energy. I want my energy back. I want my life to return to the here and now. I don’t need those memories, Pluto. I need and invoke total transformation. Torch ’em!

I went to bed angry and churning over memories that have haunted me like so many tantalizing ghosts, even when the rest of life feels magically alive. No matter what I did, some memories continued to repeat at the least convenient or appropriate times — until I tried this technique as I drifted off to sleep. It’s so weird, but I can no longer access memories of many things that were formerly on constant replay. They’re just … gone … as though I burned through actual photographs in my mind. I feel energized instead of burned out. It’s working for me. I hope you find it helpful, too!

I recently found this Michael Tsarion video/radio interview, “Psychic Vampirism, Destructive Man vs Creative Man.” I think he gives one of the best explanations of the phenomenon and ways we can choose to move through it. He’s careful to distinguish between using the idea as a means of avoiding our own responsibility and the actual situation of people who purposely prey upon other people’s Light. I very much appreciate his recommendation to have fun with our process of freeing ourselves. Evolution need not be a constant drag. It need not make us feel like victims. If you’ve wondered about Energy Vampires, narcissists or Psychic Vampirism, this interview informs and inspires. It’s long, but worth the listen!